L.G.

There are no doubts that everybody is looking for someone special in his live. Or at least pretend to be in search. One keeps his fortune in his own hands, choosing the Nobel Prize towards fulfilling one’s destiny. Other are doomed to self-distracter, denying themselves in the pool of uncertainty and skepticism. But we are here not for human categorization purposes; let’s talk about destiny of our relations with other person.  The point  is, how we can find that person? Some people could meet each other in the kinder garden and then goes through their life holding their hands. Other, can start their relations from the common chat on some students party. And some can start as co-workers, faced in the office when her or his eyes caught the melody and echoed it. Unfortunately, that happens rarely and not with everybody.

Let us imagine the usual and ordinary situation: the man sees the woman. He is single and she is gorgeous, but nothing happens. So what next? The man doesn’t show an interest, at all. I mean, of course he will lost nothing if he dares to take a chance and talk with her. And after, may be, something or someone special can turn out in his life not only by the pure chance but with his will, courage and sparkling sense of humor. However, our DOOD is simply standing and doing nothing. Why? 

We have assumed, and the British scientists, in numerous works, have proved that your irrelevant and superfluous thoughts prevent you from good fortune, asking such a silly questions like: “… and what if she goes to her boyfriend?” , “what if she doesn’t want a relationships right now? After all. I will look stupid and ridiculous”…

The problem is really serious and worth our close attention. How we can define that some other person also looking for his second half? No women and no men will not hang up on oneself the tablet with: “Single”, but for some reasons we easily can do it, for example, in “Vkontakte” or “Facebook”. What is the difference? What I am trying to say is that in social networks there is no direct contact with your interlocutor. And by making your status : “In active search”, no dramatic changes in your life will happen. There will be no surprise on your friend’s faces, and nobody will laugh at you disapprovingly.  But thus, all your friends will know that you are lonely.  Notice, only friends! The stranger doesn’t have a chance to know in advance that any efforts to knock on a closed door will be useless.
So I am begging you: KNOCK  ON A CLOSED DOOR, man!

Brave and stupid